Indahnya Solat

Inilah dia rahsia as-solat, sebagai peringatan bagi yang dah tahu
atau panduan bagi yang baru tahu......

1 - Niat Sembahyang :Sebenarnya memeliharakan taubat kita dari dunia dan akhirat.
2 - Berdiri Betul :Fadilatnya, ketika mati dapat meluaskan tempat kita di dalam kubur.
3 - Takbir-ratul Ihram :Fadilatnya, sebagai pelita yang menerangi kita di dalam kubur.
4 - Fatihah :Sebagai pakaian yang indah-indah di dalam kubur.
5 - Ruqu' :Sebagai tikar kita di dalam kubur.
6 - I'tidal :Akan memberi minuman air dari telaga al-kautsar ketika didalam kubur.
7 - Sujud :Memagar kita ketika menyeberangi titian SIRATUL-MUSTAQIM.
8 - Duduk antara 2 Sujud :Akan menaung panji-panji nabi kita didalam kubur
9 - Duduk antara 2 Sujud (akhir) :Menjadi kenderaan ketika kita dipadang Mahsyar.
1 0 - Tahhiyat Akhir :Sebagai penjawab bagi soalan yang dikemukakan oleh Munkar & Nankir di dalam kubur.
11 - Selawat Nabi :Sebagai pendinding api neraka di dalam kubur.
12 - Salam :Memelihara kita di dalam kubur.
13 - Tertib :Akan pertemuan kita dengan Allah S. W. T.


Senarai di atas adalah salah satu sebab mengapa orang Yahudi / Kafir tidak sukakan angka 13 dan juga Hari Jumaat. Itulah sebab mengapa mereka mencipta cerita yang begitu seram sekali iaitu " FRIDAY the 13th " jika ada dikalangan kamu yang perasan!!!

"Sampaikanlah pesanku biarpun satu ayat..." Sebaik-baik manusia itu adalah mereka yang memberi manafa'at kepada manusia lain...

Tunang????

First of all, aku nk panjatkan kesyukuran ke hadrat Ilahi... Alhamdulillah.

Bangun je tdo td, tbe2 pia dtg ke katil. then, ntah kenapa... ape yg aku simpan kemas di dalam lubuk hatiku, aku luahkan pada pia. ntah,lah.. mungkin sudah tidak tertahan aku memendam dan perkara itu seringkali menghantui ku saban malam. thanx, pia... terima kasih kerna sudi menjadi pendengar yg setia dan memberi kata-kata nasihat kepada diri ini. terima kasih sahabat.. luv u ^^.

sesudah selesai sesi meluahkan rasa, ema pula menyusul masuk da lepak di katil aku. (err, bila aku nk mandi ni??hahaha:P) die bwk selipar yg aku pesan kt die tu. die blk kL. then, aku pesan selipar yg de bunga seketul kt atas tu. then, die belikan...wah, muat la pulak~~ thanx ema!!

Aku pelik, apsal la muka budak ni (ema) b'seri-seri sgt ni. suddenly she said, 'bulan 21/12 ni kte tunang..' "huh?????" aku ngan pia t'kejut beruk. siyes??? wahh, bestnyee... ema antara kawan aku yg t'awal menyusul langkah ke alam baru...dunia perkahwinan. Alhamdulillah.. akhirnya, bertemu jodoh jugak die. "Patut la muke dr td b'seri-seri... seri pengantin rupanya." pia mengusik ema.. bagus, la. pagi-pagi lagi da dpt berita yg baik ni.

Insyaallah, akan aku cuba untuk menghadiri majlis pertunangan ema. walopon 20/12 tu adalah majlis perkahwinan cousin ku, tp..akan ku cuba mengagahkan diri ke rumah ema. da, la before this xpenah gi umah ema. wahh~~ best nye ^^ ema da nk tunang... Semoga b'bahagia hingga ke anak cucu ye. Ameen~

New Face~

after long time malas2 updating my blogs.. last nite suddenly i felt to change it skin to a new one. and now... taraaa!!! no more dark background, no more quite gothic look pic... and the color of font also changed~~ from pink to the navy blue. other than that, i also changed the template. coz' the older template make the space of text quite small b'coz of a lil margin. so i changed the template from minima dark to Harbor. so, the space for the text xdelah too narrow... :)

i also changed my clock's skin..hehe. from purple round circle to orange fruits!!! I think it give this blog a new refreshing look..(perasan la pulakkk...:P) and wut happen to my 'quite gothic look pic'?
<---niee haaa gambo tu. gothic ke?? hmm.. xde la sgt kan?? juz quite an egoistic women i guess~~ rite now i replacing this pic with this one --->
it is cute rite?? i like the phrase "Look what I found for you. It was all alone and lonely.." when i looked at this pic, i feel my whole body fill with bubbling touched.

and juz now, i got a positive comment from kak sue:
Name: Suhaila Bt. Abd. Halim
Nickname: Kak Sue
Age: 23
Hometown: Sg. Petani, Kedah
Location: V5J Level 5, UTP
Hobby: sleeping maybe?? hehehe:P x,laaaa... blogging i guest.
Testimonial: wahh, kak sue suke la uena nye skin blogs yg baru ni...nice~
Me: hehe..thanx kak sue!! ^^

the title of this blogs also changed to "I think I...". before this, the title of this blog is "Secret of my life" this is because, b4 dis... all of the things in here are secrets to reveal to others. but then, rite now i'd opened this blog to all of my frens to giv sum advises or comments. and feel free to critcs also about anything regarding to my post or my tought...

oppss, forget to tell the main reason why this blog has a new face. kalo bukan sebab ini i thought there wouldn't be any changes...hehehe. thanx!!! So, dear frens... keep viewing my blogs and do leave any comments or advises for me.. i noe this blog contains lotz of crappy things. but, enjoyyyssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^^

Spouse

i juz read Star newspaper borrowed from pia. die je la yg rajin beli..hehehe:p and suddenly my eye was caught by 'marriage' word. hmm, quite interesting gak, this article. its title is "Love takes work" by Louisa Lim. she had attended a typical marriage boot camp by 61-year-old Mike Constantine, a part- time marriage guru and full time husband. ahha! forget to jot down.. Constantine said, before this he hate the word "spouse". coz' it sounds too much like 'mouse' or 'louse'! or for me it sounds more likely like 'spongebob' hahaha :P Nevertheless, spouse is the only word in the english language that refer to a married person, man or women. thus, finally he try to find out himself and found that "spouse" is xtually derived form Latin word spondere, which means a solemn promise. A spouse, then is someone who solemnly promises to love and homour his or her marriage partner. Finally he said, "And that, to me, is amazing."

the main purpose of this camp is to reveal to the married couple about life after married and how to face the problem w/ ur partner. yeah, i admitted every marriage and love relationship needs hard work and understanding each other. in my own point of view, if the marriage couple facing a problem, they shudn't think about divorce. coz' i think the divorce word shud be always the last resort. When all efforts to build and reconcile have been exhausted, or when a spouse is unfaithful and unrepentant. ok, let reviews the Marriage myths debunked, below (btw, it's quite amazing to know this facts before u married!! hehehe ^^):

• Marriage will end your loneliness: u're in for a major dissapointment if u xtually jumped on d marriage bandwagon with this in mind. Many married people are lonely, b'coz according to marriage guru Mike Constatnitne, it's a case of recognising that "a marriage won't make u happy, but u make a marriage happy." my comment: agree!! if we r too depending on the marriage itself to enhance both relationship between partners, it won't be a success. coz' marriage is also like a piece of paper. we must know how to create a beautiful landscape and this need a commitment from both parties. if not, u already noe the result~~
  

• You won't be plaggued with problems if u're truly in luv: Perfect relationships don't exist. According to reowned psychologist Dr. Phil, "Arguing can xtually help the qualitiy and longevity of a relationship. The issue isn't whether u fight; it's how u do it." my comment: bak kate pepatah, it can spice up the realtionship! and after tru' all of this hardness i'll sure that u'll noe them better! ^^
  

• Having babies will boost ur bond: Remember post-partum depression? The arrival of newborn can b hard on a woman's body n emotions. Numerous couples have been driven apart by their children because it adds stress to their marriage. my comment: babies!! wahaha..i really like them. opsss, this is not 'bout me...ahaha :P hopes my future husband can consider all of this thing and can help me out by take care of our babies too..hik3 thus, less stress can be found in our marriage..(ameen!)
  

• Getting married means saying sayonara to ur sex lyf: Studies have shown that married peoples have more sex than their unmarried counterparts. Not only do they have sex more often, but they also enjoy it more, both physically and emotionally. my comment: err...ano~~ i can't comment on this topic. coz' as a muslim having sex before married is a taboo behavior. So, i guess for sure la after married the enjoyment of having sex is better! ^^ (hamboi!! pepandai die jeee...:P)
  

• A great marriage depends on a great meeting of minds: As Dr. Phil puts it, "Men n Women are wired up differently. You're different genetically, physically, spiritually... so why wouldn't you b mentally and emotionally different?" Now, celebrate those differences, and compromise! my comment: one word pop up in my mind: tolerance. try to accept each other weaknesses. and at the end both of u will b happy and understand each other better..~
  

• Romance will always be alive in a good marriage: This isn't Hollywood! In the real world, every relationship has its peaks and valleys. Love will eventually shift from fiery passion to a warm amber glow. my comment: hoyeah!!~ this is reality maaa~~ get up from ur imagination or fantasy world!! it's not a Hoollywood case only, but also Bollywood!! hahaha:P everything must be perfect like planning. but, in the real world... nuthing can b done like dat!
  

wah~~ lame xpost some facts..nmpak sgt gile boring!!!hahahaha:D fuhh~~ ouh, before i end up my post. plz read some of the phrase from Constantine. i like dat phrase coz it inspired me to make my future relationship w/ my husband better ^^.

"I've never been bored with Diane (his wife), and I never will be. We still argue from time to time, but much less than we did years ago, because we know we can't afford to waste any more time. if I had only five minutes to live, i would want all of those minutes to be with her."

"In my ideal world, no couple would ever need to think about divorce. All couples would value their marriage and their spouse so much that they would not do anything to destroy their marriage."

"A divine intervention is needed. Because when one partner breaches the trust of the other by being unfaithful, that's it. Even I can't helpmend it."

"Marriage talks usually focus on nothing but doom and gloom. I want to turn it around this time, and see what couples have been doing correctly to stay in love. One of it is keeping the lines of communication open, without any hostility."

"Too often, the tension that you experience outside, like in your work place or on the road, is brought into the realtionship. You need to differentiate the tension between you and around you. Only then can you realise that you're not really mad at significant other, but you are just taking it out on him or her."

Ketidaktiduran

It already 1.31 am in the morning and I still can’t sleep. I don’t know what to do in the early of this morning. For sure all of my friends already on their bed and have a sweet dream or horror maybe~ hahaha :P I try pm-ing some of my friends who are not idle in my ym’s list. But there are only several replied from them. Of coz la all of them rilly bz entertaining their beloved bf/gf,… sape la aku ni~ (aceyh, sdey la pulak…:P)

Btw, right now I’m trying to do sumthing to make me feel sleepy. However, there are nothing can pull off my eye lid. Juz now, I had ym-ing fyek and told her that I can’t sleep. What she suggested to me is to light off and try to close my eye. After that, slowly you will feel sleepy. Alor fyek, I guess that can’t be applied to me, laa.. I already tried it out and the result: it was failed. Hmm..reading a history book maybe? Eh, I didn’t bring any history book la. Celah mane mau carik! Aiyark..padan muke aku~ If I didn’t overslept this evening, for sure at this moment I don’t need to stay this late and hardly find the way to sleep back. Hmm, I think about 4 hours jugaklaa.. adess!

So, what I want to do now? Kaco org?? yeah, I’m doing it right now. Kaco silvermask..hahaha :P sian die. Baru blk tgok wyg da kene kaco ngan aku.hehehe ~gomenne..gomenne… ^^ my life would be wonderful if I had a bf and I wouldn’t feel this damnly bored. Geez~~ what a desperate statement! Hahaha :D dah2. stop it. I don’t want entering that area. that sensitive area..at least for me :P

Haaa~~ what I’m talking about. Da ngarut neh! Kay,la till then…gotta go and find sumthing that can make my eye and brain shutdown! Daaa~

Buntar

Today i'm back to Parit Buntar again! one of a small town located in Perak. quite long time i neva comes to this place. if i'm not mistaken about 4 yrs jugak laa~ since finished my study @ mrsm tranx. lotz of memories w/my ex-tranx. t'igt zaman dulo-dulo... i noe, today will b d bored day eva. dats y without hesitation i'm agree to accompany yani to find prawn skin. coz' she needed dat thing to complete her experiment. she said that prawn skin and crab skin are used for absorbent. but then, only prawn skin had been found. maybe next destination is lumut...ye,la~ xjumpe lg crab skin. so, bley la melantak seafood~yeahhaha !!

ahha!! forget to introduce. ni, la factory yg process raw prawn and they exported it to o'c.

fortunately, the location of this factory was easy to find. xdela kitorg t'sesat2~hihi + w/ the aid of ME!! hik3 ceh, t'perasan la pulakkkk...kuki=]

Yani: amboi~~ puas ati ler tu.hahahah:P w'pun juz 1 kg of prawn skin..it's better than zero rite~ :)

saje je nk capub depan dat factory. hehe :P tgok muke kami...girang kan~~~ ^^

haaa...thanx alot!!! mau balik suda~ tata o/

bring back d memories~ dulu, kt tepi tasek ni la our homeroom's teacher bwk all of the homeroom members b'kelah. best2~~~!

Lapo la pulakkkk~it's a lunch time. so we dropped at here for our lunch. the prices are quite ok. xde la mahal cm sesetengah kedai...

but, maybe not our rezeki. xtually nk makan kt kedai "ikan bakar gulai sembilang" tu. coz' kedai tu cm besh.all of d fud were not done prepared. so, we ate at the stall beside it.. ape2 la~~ asal kenyang! hik3

ok..everything are settled. now, we're heading back to UTP. penat tu..mmg la penat. but this is better than deadly bored in my rum! as i expected, masuk2 je lam bilik...busan! T_T apa mau buat ni.. yeah, jogging r petang ni. go, una go! gi kuruskan badan gi..(macam la gumuks sgt!!) hehehe:P

aku yg bodoh

bertubi-tubi persoalan bermain-main di benak ku tika ini. tika ini aku kesunyian. aku perlukan teman. aku punya teman...tp, bukan teman seperti itu yg aku perlukan. aku perlu teman yg lebih drpd itu. teman yg mampu mengiringi gelak tawaku, esak tangisku, dan senantiasa di samping ku kala aku butuhkan perhatiannya. kadang, aku sendiri tidak mengerti apa yg kurasakan saat ini. kata-kata org tua ku, bila di pikir-pikir kan kembali... ada benar nya. cuma, terkadang aku sendiri bodoh dan lalai dgn dunia imaginasi yg aku cipta sendiri.

konon nya mau yg berupa, yg intelek, yg setaraf.. ahh, pandang saja diri kamu. apa yg kamu ada? ahh... aku semakin bingung. diam aku menyendiri.. memikir kembali setiap baris ayat dr mulut ibuku. " carilah lelaki yg dpt membimbing kite di dunia dan di akhirat. yg tidak tinggal solatnya. yg mengasihi dan menyayangi kita seadanya dan setulus hatinya. dan bukannya carik lelaki yg terima kte mase kte cantik sahaje "

mengapa aku begitu bodoh? aku seringkali begini. tiap kali aku mencapai sesuatu, aku akan melepaskan barang tersebut tanpa menghargai nilai barang t'sebut. saat aku sedari barang itu sudah t'lepas dr tgnku..barulah aku sedar betapa berharga nya barang itu kepada diriku. walaupun ia tidaklah begitu b'harga buat org lain. tp, sekurang2 nya ia dpt membahagiakan diri ku. begitu dungu skali aku.

tak mengapalah.. apa yg sudah usah di kenang lagi. sudah takdir tidak menyebelahi aku buat masa ini. apa yg termampu..hanya doa yg dpt aku lampirkan. semoga berbahagia, abg lut... :)

was it all a dream?

I was living high, watching time fly by..
You came into my life and we both went sky high,
You blessed me with the peace of a sacred love,
As we both fell helplessly in naked love..
Then destiny came and whispered: " it's time".
As you had to go and leave me behind,
Was it all a dream; this devotion to you,
Coz' I'm sitting wondering if dreams come true..

Sate Boston

Hari ini seperti hari-hari biasa..bile ptg2 cenggini mula la rase damn bored! bile da busan ni, mula la kepala otak pk yg bukan2. haha~tgah duk lepak2 dlm bilik ema n faei plus sorg lagi manusia dr bilik sebelah..pia~ kitorg da plan mcm2 da... cameron la~ genting laa... mapley laa~~ pulau perhentian laa~ sume idea tu bernas2 belaka..smpaikan sape sekor xgi siap2 pon. mulut je yg duk rancak b'planning. as usual lah~ hehe :P then, sape ntah antara kami b'empat m'suggestkan tuk gi lepak kt sate bota/ boston~ mula-mula tu...igtkan xjd. sume pakat duk baring je atas katil ema n faei. hahaha~

at last.. pia ckp "jum2..siap. make sure jup gi kte gi. jum gi solat asar lu" aku igtkan men2 je dorg neh. rupenye b'ia. then, mula la propaganda..' sape yg nk belanja nih?' di sebabkan besday ema yg t'dekat, so die kene la banje sate boston tu. hihi~ ( ley, lak ade rule yg cmtu ekkk... ;P)

tepat jam 6.00 p.m kitorg b'gerak dr UTP menuju ke Boston @ Bota.

haa..ni baru nk stat kyar dr UTP ni.

yay~~ da smpai pon. nmpak x asap2 sate tuuuu....hik3

Pia yg kelaparan...smpai nk makan tgn ema lak~hakhakhak D

wah~~kt sebelah kedai sate ni, ade durian lah....tgok2, byk niiiii jum pilih jum!!

disebabkan da t'liur sgt nengok durian tu.. ema belanja kitorg sebiji durian. RM5 tuuu~ isi die bley thn la. manis...mcm ema~~ hihi (pujii skett~ :P) lgpon, sementara duk nunggu sate yg amat lah slow nye~ kitorg melantak durian dulu..

Pia yg dr td kelaparan xsaba nk menyambar durian..hik3

nyum3~~~sian yan..die xmakan durian. so, die la yg amik gamba kami...hehehe ^^

tgah tunggu sate laks ni. xsmpai2 lagi....

err...byknye budak tu makan ye... -_-"

nie,la sate nye~ tp..tggal 2 cucuk je. yg len2 sume da tggal lidi. kempunan agak nye budak2 ni nk makan sate. hahahaha~

Aksi bebudak yg kekenyangan. ehem2..wat exercise perut ke kak??? hik3

finally, went back to UTP~

perut da kenyang.. so, hati pon senang la~ lalala~ ^^ nmpak x tande 'U' turn tu? haa..kitorg da nk blk da niiii...masing penat + t'sandar kekenyangan. agak senak perut ini..rase cm makanan tu xt'hadam..adeiii~ but, i rilly enjoy this evening.. thanx, ema.. thanx rumet dan osmet2 ku~~ luvya all !!! mmmuuuaaahhh~ next time nk gi mane lak?? hehu =]

Cuti Semester yang ...

Serasa, lama sudah jari jemari ku tidak menari-nari di atas papan kekunci ini. bait-bait ayat pun sudah mula kekok bermainkan iramanya. maaf... andai apa yg aku ukirkan kali ini tidak seindah dahulu lagi. Alhamdulillah, akhirnya berjaya juga aku menghabiskan sisa-sisa semester lepas dan diakhiri dengan tugasan "PDP I".

Cuti aku bermula dgn sebuah kisah sedih. kepulanganku kali ini disambut dgn berita tok aku yg sdg sakit tenat. aku sebagai cucu, sedaya upaya menjalankan tanggungjawabku. aku harap, biarlah aku dpt menjaga tok aku dgn baik sebelum ajal menjemputnya. Syukur... doaku t'makbul. walaupun sehari..aku b'syukur. aku sempat memohon maaf drpdnya. aku sempat mengalunkan ayat-ayat suci al-Quran ke telinga nya. saban kali... aku mengajarnya mengucap. sesungguhnya, aku tidak menyesal. walaupun hanya sehari.. tp, kepulangan ku tidak sia-sia. pada ptg sabtu, akhirnya tok aku menghembuskan nafasnya yg t'akhir. Innalillah... Allah lebih menyayangi dia. aku doakan agar rohnya sentiasa dicucuri rahmat dan dibawah lindungan-Nya. al-fatihah.

Selama tiga malam b'turut-turut bacaan tahlil dan kenduri arwah diadakan di rumahku. memandangkan selama ini ayah dan mak yg menjaga tok dan wan, jd kenduri arwah dibuat di rumah aku. nk dikatakan penat tu... memang lah penat. ye,lah... lepas kenduri sudah pasti rumah akan b'selerak. kalo nk diturutkan rasa penat.. mmg malas nk kemas. tp, aku buang rasa tu jejauh. kesian pulak dekat mak nnt. sape lak yg nk kemaskan..~

Cuti kali ini amatlah berlainan dgn cuti-cuti yg sebelum nya. percaya atau tidak.. aku sempat b'kerja sebagai 'cashier' kat kantin kilang Continental. ^^ mula-mula tu, agak cuak dgn situasi baru di tempat kerja. tp, akhirnya b'jaya jugak aku menyesuaikan diri. mcm-mcm ragam org yg aku jumpa mase jd cashier tu. ada yg kedekut la.. dah,la amik lauk byk. melimpah ruah..bile kene byr mahal...merungut pulak. ade pulak yg sempat lg nk menggatal. aiyark... mcm2 ragam. xsume yg byk songeh..ade je yg ok. cume yg xley blah nye..minah-minah indon rupenye gatal2 ek. partner aku ni cashier gak r.. lelaki. bley plak si minah indon ni ngorat budak tu..semata-mata nk makan murah. line aku xmo b'atur. bajet nk ngorat r tu... last2 kene harga mahal.. bising 1 kantin. ahahha :D

keje aku b'mula kul 6 pg, sbb dorg stat makan dr kul 6.30 pg - 8.00 pg. mmg tiap-tiap ari la aku bgon awal. kul 5 pg da bgon. mane nk b'siap lg.. mane nk drive lagi.. sejam jugak,lar~ sampai je kt kantin..tugas pertama yg aku kene buat ialah pastikan air sume da siap bancuh. sudu garpu da disusun. gelas sume da disusun. n kuih-muih cukup. then, t'cangak la aku kt kaunter cashier tu. tp..xde la duduk saje. kalo agak-agak xde org..aku akan kemas2 meja. then, abes je sesi pagi.. rehat jup. then kene potong2 buah-buahan. mula-mula tu, mmg xreti la. ye r..nk kene potong sume nk kasi same saiz.. kalo sekadar potong bodo je..tau r aku. tp, skan ni..aku da cekap beb. hahaha :P antara buah yg dijual.. betik, tembikai, mangga, pisang, honeydew dan mcm lagi. mmg byk. slalunye kalo stat potong buah kul 8.30 pg.. kul 10 baru siap. sbb pas potong tu, nk kene packing lagi. kalo buat sorg2, mau nangis.. then, start kul 11 kene prepare kaunter cashier da. stat kul 11 smpai kul 1.30 kene b'diri kt kaunter tu. mmg lenguh seyh kaki ni.. tp, xkesah lah. da keje mmg cmtu kan. tepat jam 3.30 ptg, aku pon chow~~ hakhakhak. tunggu ape lagi kan... :P

mcm-mcm pengalaman aku dpt mase keje kt situ. w'pun hanya sebulan.. tp, mmg berbaloi. mcm-mcm ragam manusia yg kte bley tgok. s'benanrnye byk lg aku nk tulis. tp, cm da xlrt nk type da ni. xcukup stamina lg ni.. hahaha. bese la.. baru nk warm up. lame seyh..x b'blogging ni. ^^
kay,la..till then~